I still dont understand why some things happen, the way they happen, and the impact they bring upon us when they do. Ive always heard that everything happens for a reason, and im one who preaches the same, but sometimes it may not be clear right away why things have happened. Always Remember to Cherish The Times

Death, whether it be of a close friend, a relative, pets, or someone you knew back in school, they all seem to affect us in ways even just the slightest.  We're shocked, hurt, confused, even devistated when we find out that we have lossed someone that has been in our lives even just for a brief moment. Always Remember to Cherish The Times

Ive lost 3 uncles within the past 2 years, two of which I knew were going to pass because of health issues, one though was a complete surprise.  Each of my uncles impacted my life while they were around, so many memories, so many life lessons, things that will never be forgotten and always be associated with them. Always Remember to Cherish The Times

I had to put my dog down a little over a year ago, and honestly that was probably the hardest thing emotionally I ever had to do. I got him at a year old, he would have turned 13 this past christmas eve. He was honestly my best friend someone I could always count on being there for me, to cheer me up, he just always knew the exact things to do, he may have been a dog but he was part of my family. Pictures, songs, all sorts of things remind me of him.  Always Remember to Cherish The Times

Ive lost quite a few friends from school since graduating or even people I have known through other people, to car accidents or other  events. Today was another one of those days for me, i get on facebook and see 'RIP Sean' all over my news feed....I wasnt really close to him,I went to middle school and high school with him, hell he prolly wouldnt even know who I was if he saw me now. But i remembered him.  I was completely shocked went to his page not thinking it was true, but it was, he took his life this morning. But why?? That still isnt explained, just YESTERDAY he was posting about how much he was enjoying his life, making changes for the better.  He had just gone through a really rough break up, so maybe that was what triggered it?  I dont know. But what I do know is that he was a really funny guy to be around always made you laugh, he brightened up days for people who barely knew him, such as myself. Always Remember to Cherish The Times.

My dad is going through health issues, he has his up days he has his down days.  He will be turning 50 this year.  I get to spend alot of time with him since I live at home still and he isnt able to work since he is technicaly 100% disabled through the military so we have our father daughter times.  I want him to be there when I get married, I want him to be there when I have children. I want these doctors to figure out whats wrong with him and get him back to himself, where he can drive himself around and we not have to worry, get him to get out more, Ive gone through moments where I was scared of losing him because of everything he was going through. Hes getting better though, but no matter what I Always Remember to Cherish The Times.

Ive gotten to where the little things in life make the biggest impact to me, I dont over look much of anything anymore when it comes to someone doing something for me, or me going out of my way to do something for them.  Im not looking for any kind of reaction from anyone who does go out of their way to read this, just kind of wanted to share some thoughts.  Always Remember to Cherish  The Times, no matter how short they may be, no matter how simple they may seem, never assume that you'll have more because you never know when someone you care about or know may be gone and you wont be able to spend that time with them.

Always Remember to Cherish The Times....

Peace on Earth

in the heat of world war 1 in 1914, in the weeks leading upto christmas small bands of britsh and german soilders declared truces and shared meals and souviners. but most remarkable was this account. in "no mans land" soliders in no mans land ventures out on Christmas Eve and Christmas to share meals, souveiners, assist each other in ceremonies for the dead, some lead to singing carols.....what would of the out come have been had they continued the next day then another. how many countless lifes would of been save ...just through love of your fellow man.

we today live in a very diverse world (here at sarahs as well) with a melting of ages, culture, backgorund, ethnic and religous views. all things said it is this; peace begins with us and ends with you.....note to self ..be kinder, more understanding, and tolerant of others (my short comings may drive them crazy too)

Peace of mind

though it is said to be a great time of year, many of us find it much differently at times....the ...they said what, ...are they even coming...not sure we can afford to do that...and here i sit...

just something to recall...not just this time of year but every day.....if you look back on your years (short or long)...there was that one comment that inspired you...the person who said it may have not grasped the meaning...but it inspired you.....say those things to others

it is better to give than receive...we have all heard it. thnk back on any given time when you made something by hand and gave it to another, the smile on their face, ...when i say made by hand ..consider it could be ...shoveling a walk, holding a door, having a conversation with a stranger, or just a smile....

didn't the glow on their face make it a special moment...have peace of mind: be humble in your glory, and humble in defeat. the person you help today may help you tomorrow....and if they don't ..you know that you have the peace of mind....that you reached out first. just some thoughts.

best to you and yours

to you my lovely daughter these words i impart

it is not the past that holds you,

but the future you behold ...with each stroke

it is not the words of the past that define you,

but those unspoken word yu will speak

it is not the sunset that guides you but,

the sunrise that bring your day

it is not words for words sake but,

the words you are yet to share in your life

now the dad part....

you impress me with your every step,

always have brought a pride i can't explain,

can't explain but i will try ...thats what dads do

if i could guide each step so that you would not stumble,

i would not

if you are brusied and fear the night,

i will comfort you

if you cry out at anytime,

you know i will answer

if your thoughts become jumbbled,

i will let it go till you call

if you need confidence i will listen,

but let you solve

but of all things, this is most clar of all

i love this daughter of mine

she is me years ago, smile...

she is what i wished for ..and got

such a luck man to have her as she is

my daughter, the one that brings a smile

she is my daughter....a bearer of the tourch ..

and proud to say my daughter...in any circle or crowd...back to the theme...

your old man ain't right...smirk

to close..

you cap'n, greta, josie....make me proud in everything you do

note: lasting treat my daughter right or i m coming after your ass...

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers!  It does help!

Nothing but love for all you ghoulish and cool people!

Rum

This place is different without you around,

I did not know you well, but I can read and observe

You touched many people with your presence, and your words

You must of been very kind to have this effect,

For you are and still a cherished friend...

Never to be forgotten and will always be missed...

We know where you lie, there is no suffering and pain

From the earth we come and back to rest again,

May your spirit soar free like the eagle in the sky,

And find your place to rest and look down from above.

Peace Be With You and Blessed Be

Then he looked down on the earth and saw your tired face

He knew that you were suffering he knew you were in pain

He knew that you would never get well on this earth again

He saw that the roads were getting rough and the hills were hard to climb

So he closed your weary eyes and whispered "peace be thine"

It broke our hearts to loose you, but you didnt go alone

for part of us went with you, the day God called you home

miss you Jay........not a day goes by

Thank you all for keeping him and my family in your prayers!

Rum

My life for yours and yours for mine. our love  so clear, too many a mans eye, it  brought a tear!

You've left us now too take your post with  all of Gods heav'nly hosts. My Dad .my Friend ny guiding light,,,tihey'll never be good by, only good night.

W.F.F.  25aug36--310ct07  Seper fi,, Babe!!

I just wanted to say "thank you" to all of you who kept us in your prayers!  They really do mean a lot to me!  I can't tell you how much your thoughts and prayers mean to me and my family!  In fact I consider everyone at Sarahs to be part of my family!

Thank you again and God Bless!

Rum

Thank you all for your support in this trying time!

We love you all and God bless!